TOPICS FOR DISCUSSION

1. Discuss the first chapter, "But, I Do Both!" 
We understand that on some days you give/receive more than on other days. Also, you treat people differently, are more generous with some than others. Nonetheless, most people exhibit an overall trend of being more of Giver or more of a Taker. In the first meeting, read and then talk about each of the 10 lessons presented in the first chapter. 
2. Discuss "Thirty Giver-Taker Traits." 
Encourage members to share instances where they have acted out the traits in this chapter. You may want to spend two or three sessions on this topic.
3. Discuss "The Taker's Secret Code."
Takers give more reluctantly, sporadically, and for a calculated reason. He or she has a hidden code of reciprocating, a set way of giving that is peculiar to the individual. Talk about Taker tricks.
4. Discuss "Rating the Two Types." 
Learn to distinguish between extreme, heavy, moderate and light Givers and Takers. 
5. Discuss "The Remedies."
In this session, discuss the eleven solutions to the Giver/Taker problem. Subscribing to any or all of these suggestions will automatically improve your relationships.